I have a request today. . .
A friend of mine just had a baby. Unfortunately, the baby somehow developed hydrops in gestation. She was born drowning – and because of the problem is in critical condition. Please add baby Lucy to your prayers as well as her family. Grant and Gretchen (her parents) have started a blog about her. We’re hoping that with faith and prayers – she’ll survive. Thank you for yours.
Lucy’s blog is: lucymeanslight.blogspot.com
-Marzee, your AtmChick
Update: Lucy is doing great! Her heart is the correct size, she’s breathing beautifully – great brain function. Truly a miracle baby. Thanks for all of your prayers!
LDS Beliefs, My Mormon Life
I’ve never been responsible for an income. I have no idea what it is to have that kind of pressure. The closest I’ve come to it was this past week when my husband and I decided I would need to pay back my student loans on my own.
He’s always been the bread winner and I the stay-at-home mom. Seeing my income will be required for student loans, I’ve wondered how to provide that and still be the mom my children need. I’ve even questioned my major as a viable choice for future employment. I chose my degree to achieve a dream, not an income. Do I need to rethink my future to support family needs rather than personal wishes?
How do we make those hard decisions? How can we confidently choose our futures? Do we have to do it alone?
My Mormon Life
I do laundry. This way my kids don’t smell like “The Bog of Eternal Stench.”
I’ve had one of those “high efficiency” washer and dryers for a couple of years now and have only just bought the proper detergent for it. Could we spring for the nice stuff? Sure . . . . but really, is my washer really “too good” for the generic suds? Apparently it is – as the maintenance man has told me. . . twice. But really – if it’s so “superior,” shouldn’t it be able to suck it up and blow bubbles with the old stuff?
Mormon Moment –
When taking some clothes upstairs I pause in the hallway and get down on my knees to pray.
Q: Why pray in the hallway?
Why not? You can do it here or there, you can do it anywhere! It doesn’t really matter where you do it, just so long as you’re praying. A hallway is just as good as a closet:
6 But thou, when thou prayest, enter into thy acloset, and when thou hast bshut thy door, cpray to thy Father which is in dsecret; and thy Father which eseeth in secret shall freward thee openly. ~Matt. 6: 6 (New Testament)
Q: Why the sudden urge to stop in the middle of putting away laundry to pray?
It’s Spring Break and I’m with my kids 24/7. This is a bit of culture shock for me. I want them to remember this time as special with a really cool fun mom, rather than a crabby mean mom who freaked with the running, yelling, tattling, brown sugar all over the floor and such.
I’ve learned that if I get good thoughts or impressions, it’s best to take immediate action as they’re probably more important than I realize. If I don’t do it right away, I’ll forget – and regret.
So I paused to get down on my knees and asked Heavenly Father for a little help to be the mom that they need, that He wants me to be, and that I hope to be.
‘Children are to be born into a family where the parents hold the needs of children equal to their own in importance. Hope on, trust on, till you see the salvation of God.’4 You can pray for your children, love them, and reach out to them with confidence that Jesus reaches for them with you.
– Elder Henry B. Eyring, Apostle (“Our Perfect Example” Ensign. Nov. 2009)
I know taking a moment for prayer makes a huge difference in how I feel, think, act . . . and in return how my kids do similarly. They’re worth it and so am I.
Does this ever help you?